Getting to know that new romantic connection in your life is so much fun. However, in the beginning, it can be hard to know what questions to ask since you don’t know anything about them.

It’s always nice to have a list of handy, fun questions ready.

Below is a list  you can ask to break the ice. Feel free to use some or all to get to know your new special someone better. Enjoy!

1. What three cities or parts of the country would you never move to, under any circumstance?

   (…even if you were offered your dream job to live there?) This one’s fun, because it not only tells you a lot about the person you’re asking, but it also opens the door to all sorts of great follow up questions. And of course, if you’re from one of the places on the “no-go” list, or want to live there someday, then it helps to guide your decision.

2. How old were you when you started drinking and enjoying coffee?

     If you’re a coffee aficionado yourself, it opens the door to more questions about brands, flavors, etc.

3. Morning person, or night owl?

   This one’s fun, but also more important than you might think, especially if you’re looking for someone with long term relationship potential.

4. Who was the biggest role model for you when you were growing up? Who’s your biggest role model now?  What changed?

   A great multi-part question that gives you a view into the arc of the life of the person you’re talking to.  It’s just as interesting to find someone who has the same role model now as he or she did in childhood as it is to find someone whose role model has changed considerably over time, and opens the door for lots of interesting conversation!

5. If money and career weren’t standing in your way, where would you want to live, and why?

   It seldom happens, but if you run across a person who answers this question the same way (or nearly as) you would, that’s a huge bonus, for obvious reasons!

6. If you could pick any one super power, which one would you pick and why?

   It’s amazing how much light this one sheds on a person.

7. You just won a million dollars in the lotto. What do you do with it?

   An oldie, but a goodie!

8. Name one thing you completely suck at. Name one thing you’re insanely good at.

   Always nice to know, and most people aren’t comfortable talking about the things they’re not very good at, which can be illuminating all by itself.

9. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever watched all the way through on Netflix?

   A good way to gauge if your weird and his or her weird are vibrating at something close to the same frequency.

10. Do you have any scars? How did you get them?

    It has been said that scars are tattoos with better stories.  This is a great way to get the scoop on them.

Of course, there are plenty of other great questions to ask someone as you’re just getting to know them. These will certainly get you started!

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Great conversation on a first date is very important for breaking the ice. Much as going on a first date can make one nervous, a bad flow of conversation can screw up any chances you had of a second date. So you have to try and ace it by carefully choosing the questions to ask.

The idea is not to get too personal by asking grueling questions about the guy’s religion, political affiliation or money. These are known to elicit too much emotions and may ruin your date instantly. You need to go easy on the get-to-know questions.

So here are some of the questions (which guys approved) that you can ask to strike great conversation till your date ends:

1. Where are you from? Chances are you might be knowing where he is lives. So this can be turned into a “Where were you born” or “where did you grow up” question.
2. Do you have any brothers and sisters?
3. What is your favorite sport? Here if you are lucky to find that you enjoy the same sport, then you will have struck gold. Also find out if he plays one.
4. How do you like to spend your weekends? This is a great ice breaker. It can also say a lot about a guy and how he likes to spend his time. And if you get a second date, then you can do one of those things.
5. A follow up question would be: Do you drink? And if so, what his favorite drink is.
6. Which movie do you like most? This will give you an insight about the genre he prefers. And if he gets into it and asks you about a latest movie, then it means he is up to date with the film industry. A related question is books. Ask what his favorite book is and which one he has read recently.
7. What is your dream car? This will definitely get him talking.
8. Do you like traveling? If yes, ask him where he has been and what his dream vacation spot is.
9. What inspires you? Whom do you admire?
10. What is on your bucket list? This one will be interesting.

The above questions will give you a rough idea about what a guy likes and what kind of person he is. The questions can make a man open up naturally in a way that you will know whether you will be picking up his calls if he decides he wants a second date.

All the best.

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